Growing up, our parents taught my siblings and I to be, at the least, a hundred percent in whatever we're doing. I was just a little extra on pressuring myself to always be the best that I end up crying whenever the end result of what I do (i.e. grades) turns out to be not perfect.
Daddyo would always tell us,

So that's why when it comes to everything, I see to it that I give it my best shot. But sometimes, you'll realize that not even the best will yield a nice result, especially if it's not meant to be in your favor.
I realized this specifically from a matter-of-the-heart experience..
Let me just share some realizations I had lately.
A relationship that is not meant to be will always go down crashing.
No matter how much you try, if the person or the timing isn't right, it is bound to end.
Though it's not your fault but the circumstances', it still hurts big time.
On the brightside, atleast you know your feelings were real -- and that you're human -- because you feel pain. Nonetheless..
No matter what life has presented, we must continue to believe in love anyway.
It hurts when you've been given up on not because you lack something, but because you have so much to give and your partner thinks he/she is not deserving of all of it.
Only when you come to terms that it's their problem they don't have the guts to meet your standards and that there's nothing wrong with being your best, you can accept the situation and move on with your life -- closer to the day you'll meet someone who's man enough to celebrate how a little too extra you are.
As what my best cuz (bestfriend-cousin) said, "If someone couldn't reach you because of who you are and where you are right now, let that guy go. Because a real man will do his best to reach you."

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Chin up, pretty young thing! Greater things are on their way. It is never your fault if somebody thinks you're way too good for them. The right
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