When You Know Your Worth

I have always struggled with the feeling of not being enough. It was a traumatic feeling for me being replaced. At one point in my life I have asked, "Am I that dispensable?" Boys seem to just find a replacement way too soon.

But in time I have figured out that it is not about me and that I should not take it personally.

Sometimes people are just not ready for someone like you. Sometimes they feel that they will fall short of the everything he thinks you deserve. If they want to leave, set them free for it will do you more good than harm. Yes, it may hurt at first but it will hurt more if you cling to the idea that it's better to keep him in your life although you know he already wants out.

If he already knows he's incapable of being the best person he thinks you deserve, then you might as well stop giving yourself excuses why he's acting up -- not letting go for you still see potential in him to change and eventually be the best person for you -- and stop begging him to give the two of you another shot. You should already know better than that! 

Give yourself enough respect.

When you know your worth, you'll finally stop seeing someone's "potential" and start seeing how much of a waste of time he really is.

And that the person worth giving all the time and attention is YOU.


It has always been.